by
Jack
HutslarThe reporters who earn their keep by following our big time Revenue Sports have had a cornucopia of subject matter in recent months. Drugs have served up endless story lines as footballers have been suspended for varying
lengths of time while others have been coming off suspensions. There are too many names to mention.
Then Marion Jones got caught with too much of the wrong kind of juice in her system. That was followed with the steroid and human growth hormone
scandals in Major League Baseball. Writers and talking heads have been able to dine with
glutenous delight at this unending banquet.
While all of this has been going on, a tarnished college and professional football star faced the music created by his self-destructive passion for dog fighting. I found it interesting that some of his peers and even some of the talking heads were not overly concerned about this type of
transgression. In fact, some of his teammates were wearing Free Michael Vick t-shirts to show him support. So, it appears that dog fighting does not attract the same level of media attention as does drugs.
More recently, the coaching
carousel has been spinning under the table out of the sight of pundits. A few coaches at the big schools were fired before the end of the season. At the same time, several high profile bowl coaches were in the news every day defending themselves against accusations that they were jumping ship for more attractive jobs.
It has been interesting to me that, among drugs, dogs and defections, defections generated the greatest animosity against the birds who flew the coop. Bobby
Petrino was really dragged through the mud by some of the big name football analysts as well as his former players. Rich Rodriguez was body-slammed for leaving
WVU for Michigan. There seemed to be mostly vile comments by the media and the fans directed toward those who were seeking more attractive coaching situations.
At the same time, there was almost no words of sympathy for those coaches who were released or fired before their terms were up - Duke, Georgia Tech, UCLA to name a few. While
Petrino in particular was really roasted by the media folks, there was very little criticism of those players who were under contract and then held out so they could
renegotiate more favorable contracts. Interesting the differences, is it not.
None of these happenings in the sporting world were good happenings the people involved or the sport. Yet, the coaches who bolted for what they considered to be better or more satisfying jobs seemed to get toasted the most. Unlike the juiced up athletes, these coaches did not play havoc with the record books. These coaches did not engage in any animal or human slaughter. These coaches did not go on strike for higher wages as many players do. Yet, they took the brunt of the slings and arrows from the Big Time sports media.
What do these actions have to do with youth sport. Nothing, you say? Wrong. Youth players and coaches model a lot of their behavior after that of the big time high school, college, Olympic and professional athletes and their coaches. In fact, people of all ages tend to imitate the behavior of those who do what they do, play what they play and dress like they dress.
Youngsters may spend 10 to 20 hours a week with a coach figure or spend endless hours watching these highly visible figures play on television. They will pick up the behaviors and attitudes of these role models. Adult players and coaches can shout from the pedestals as much as they want that they are not role models - -
But They Are Role Models. They cannot avoid it. It comes with the territory because of the positions they occupy.
Youth leaders and parents must see that their children know the differences between good models and poor models. Furthermore, parents in
particular must model good behavior for their children. Failure to do so will lead to uncounted negative incidents involving drugs, dogs and defections. When parents do not take a positive
leadership role in the rearing of their children, others will. When others occupy that leadership position, leaders and parents end up gambling with the directions their children take in the months and years ahead.
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